Please
read the following story as an example of meaningful coincidence.
"Kelly is a 28 year old female member of Alcoholics Anonymous. She was
struggling with a great deal of anger and resentment focused on her father, an
active alcoholic with whom she has been with from the age of 10. She described
their relationship as one of emotional turmoil and “dysfunctional.”
One day, as she was reading the text, Alcoholics Anonymous, she came across a
passage that described alcoholics as sick people and how we would not treat a
cancer patient or someone suffering from another serious medical illness with
disdain and resentment. She suddenly had this “revelation” about her father and
felt the anger and resentment melt into empathy and concern. She realized how he
was suffering and ill from his alcoholism just as she had been suffering from
the same illness: “I felt like all those feelings that I carried around my dad
were gone. I guess I see this now as God removing my resentments.” She suddenly
“felt a sense of peace.” As she pondered these new feelings and perceptions her
cell phone rang; it was her father calling. The two had been so alienated that
she didn’t even think he knew her phone number. Surprisingly, he confessed to
her how important she had been in his life, how sorry he was, how he cared
about her and would do anything to help her. He wept as he spoke openly about
their troubled relationship
Kelly later told the interviewer that the coincidence of her father calling
just at the moment when her heart was opening up struck her as “amazing.”
Please rate the frequency that you
have experienced the following conditions by selecting the appropriate answer.
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When I am in a
hurry, I find a parking spot right where I need it. |
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I am late to get
somewhere and find the way surprisingly open so that I arrive just in time. |
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I think of calling
someone, only to have that person unexpectedly call me. |
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When my phone
rings, I know who is calling (without checking the cell phone screen or using
personalized ring tones). |
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I think about a
song and then hear it on the radio. |
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I think of a
question only to have it answered by external media (i.e., radio, TV, people)
before I can ask it. |
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I think of an idea
and hear or see it on radio, TV, or Internet. |
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I think about
someone and then that person unexpectedly drops by my house or office or
passes me in the hall or street. |
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I run into a friend
in an out-of-the-way place. |
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I need something
and the need is met without my having to do anything. |
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In a desperate
search for information it amazingly shows up. |
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The right amount of
money shows up from an unexpected source just when I need it. |
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A lost object comes
back to me in an unexpected way. |
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I experience a
series of numerically-related coincidences (for example, buying something for
$1.44 before taking flight #144 at |
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The same name or
word has appeared several times in close proximity in different contexts. |
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I advance in my
work/career/education through being at the “right place-right time.” |
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I am introduced to
people who unexpectedly further my work/career/education. |
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A certain number
regularly appears in my life. |
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Meaningful coincidence
helps determine my educational path. |
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I discover that I
felt pains and/or anguish as someone I loved was dying in another place. |
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I experience strong
emotions or physical sensations that were simultaneously experienced at a
distance by someone I love. |
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After a loved one
died, I have received some indication that this person was communicating with
me. |
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I have dreams and
later find out that events in my dreams actually
happened around the same time that I had dreamt them. |
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I have dreams that
predict future events. |
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I have dreams that
supply me with specific information about my personal life, career, or
education. |
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I have dreams about
unknown persons whom I then subsequently met. |
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A series of
coincidences point me toward taking a particular action in my personal life,
career, or education. |
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In attempting to
reach a goal, obstacle after obstacle prevented me from continuing on a path
which I later discovered was better for me. |
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Meaningful coincidence
validates my course of action. |
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Meaningful
coincidences change my life. |
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I am in the right
place at the right time to rescue somebody. |
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A meaningful
coincidence results in my avoiding an injury or an accident. |
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Meaningful coincidences
occur to me around the birth of a
child. |
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Meaningful
coincidences occur to me around the
death of a loved one. |
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Meaningful
coincidences occur to me around a
personal crisis. |
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After experiencing
meaningful coincidence, I analyze the meaning of my experience. |
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1–Strongly
Disagree
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5-Strongly Agree |
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I feel that
meaningful coincidences point to a connection between my internal and
external worlds. |
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I believe that
human minds are interconnected. |
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I believe fate works
through meaningful coincidences. |
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I believe God
speaks to us through meaningful coincidences |
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Meaningful
coincidences help me grow spiritually. |
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I believe
coincidences can be explained by the laws of probability or chance. |
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